When You Love Someone, You Just Want To See Them Happy
Who can say of themselves that they love someone and wish they were doing badly? No one. Is there any way to love a person and not wish with all your heart to see that person always cheerful and happy? I would say no.
Life can be very tough at times. There are myriad reasons that can cause the very foundations of life as we know it to shatter. However, when you love someone, you will always want to see them happy no matter what the cost.
The happiness of a person we love
There is no need to tell us that we wish good luck to the person we love. In fact, it’s something you don’t even have to think about, you just feel it. There is no greater desire in your heart than to see the person you love joyful and happy.
A person who loves dearly and feels happy doesn’t wish anyone to feel bad. Especially not the people who make their life something unique, a life full of hope and affection. A happy person is a lively, affectionate person who takes care of the well-being of all who make their existence unique and fulfilling.
If you don’t want to see the person you love happy …
If you don’t want to see the person you love happy, you may need to reconsider your feelings. Because it is obvious that your love is not fulfilling, and maybe you don’t love the person the way you think you are.
Think about your feelings, emotions, and skills. You have to judge yourself and think about who you are and what you want in your life. Above all, you should try to penetrate the deepest depths of your heart in order to get to know the desires that are hidden there and your real needs.
Otherwise you will not be able to make someone happy and then you will never be happy yourself.
A happy and loved one
Remember that the person you love will never be perfect. In reality, there will be a variety of flaws that you will find in the person. As many as you have yourself.
Anyway, if you really love the person, you want to see them happy. So much so that mistakes become secondary. You won’t mind them and they may even eventually transform to perfection. We don’t need a perfect person by our side who always makes up for mistakes, but someone who can understand and love them. And of course that also applies the other way around.
“You are in love when you realize that the other person is unique.”
Jorge Luis Borges
When the person by your side is unique to you, seeing the person happy, fulfilled, and content becomes a priority in your life. Give her all the love she needs so that she never falls off the cloud you put her gently on.
Find happiness in others
Many people say that you can get to know a person through their friends, family members, and acquaintances. There is some truth in this, for we tend to look for understanding and people who are like us and complete us.
In this sense, a person who surrounds himself with happy people will experience great support, which will enable him to live his life more fully.
“We learn to love someone not when we find the perfect person, but when we see the imperfect person in a perfect light.”
Sam Keen
It’s not just about loving your partner. Love your partner, your friends and your family members with all your heart and soul. Just like you, any other person who means something to you in your life can make you a better person.
The fact that you can make others happy can complete you. You will feel fulfilled and satisfied, all because of the simple fact that you love others.
