Uncertainty Is The Root Of Every Toxic Relationship

When we talk about toxic relationships, poor emotional dealings may be the first thing that comes to mind. But in truth there are such relationships in every social environment, whether among friends or within the family. They are relationships that are undermined by insecurity. Relationship that seduce and cheat. In which people are trapped in a black net from which it is difficult for them to free themselves, but which they are not aware of. Because those affected have low self-esteem, which leads them into toxic relationships.

They are experts in hiding their insecurity through manipulation, fraud and accusations. You consider yourself not good enough. They cannot deal with their lack of self-esteem. That’s why they transfer it to other people to feel more secure. Therefore, a toxic relationship can trigger states of paranoia and social isolation. On the other hand, it can also favor compensatory behavior such as arrogance, narcissism or aggressiveness.

Insecurity in toxic relationships is an invisible ruse. It wears people down.

Why do insecurity and jealousy go together?

Jealousy in its most extreme form is a pathological way of connecting with others. Feeling jealous for no reason makes you feel like you don’t deserve the other person, you’re not good enough for them. It suggests insecurity and a lack of self-love. So it is a good idea to protect ourselves and anyone who shows up from her at all times.

Jealous and suspicious people are caught in cycles of negative thoughts and feelings. You make them believe they are right. As a result, they end up stuck between weakness and narcissism. This is an explosive combination that results from insecurity in relationships.

These people hide a huge void within them, which is nourished by their own insecurity and fear. Because of this, they keep telling their partner how much they love them. In fact, they even use persuasion and manipulation to control them. It’s their way of keeping the relationship going. Unfortunately, their deep-seated inferiority complex renders all efforts pointless. The security they get from the relationship is never enough.

The damage that insecurity does to a person is so great that it changes their personality.

An insecure person tries to make the other person feel insecure

We have to be very careful when making contact with insecure people. This applies to love relationships as well as to friends or family. Such people are true experts at sowing the seeds of insecurity in others. They do it for a sense of control.

There might come a time when we question our own actions and then it’s important to ask ourselves who we are around. Why do we feel this way? When a feeling of insecurity arises that has never been there, we should stop. It is possible for the insecure person to project their own insecurities onto us in order to feel more secure about themselves. To do this, she uses the so-called dark triad, consisting of manipulation, fraud and accusations.

Insecurity in relationships boils down to just that. Sometimes an insecure person can only find a way to deal with their lack of self-esteem. She does it by making everyone else unhappy.

“Mistrust is the mother of insecurity.”

Aristophanes